When all is Said and Done

In regards to dating rules and regulation i am very modern. I am part of the new generation and i believe it is ok for a woman to ask a man out however, a woman has to proceed with caution always. Dropping a few pointers will not hurt, but were can a sister draw the line?These days some women just take this rule to the very extreme and it is sad because while doing so, humilate themselves and further encourage anti-socialite men thinking any woman who is being friendly is out to chase them. As if, if a smart woman wanted a man she couldn't get him before he said Jack Robinson..................... and all the sisters say amen.

Before writing any further i must stress here, i am no feminist activist or woman's right whatever, i just think some of our actions as women permit men to treat us with such disrespect and then we wonder why....... ladies, Girls.......... if you see a man you like, walk up and say hi, if he response good for you, keep the conversation flowing, kind of be in control and remember you are the one who wants his number without asking. At this point all roads leads to how to get him to ask for a date or something without seeming desperate.

If he calls luck you, if he doesnt stop making excuses for him, assuming he is busy with work, if a man wants you he will make time. so when all is said and done take your cues and never disturb a man or try to convince him why he should date you just have Fun.Irrespective of what the popular saying is, there are more than enough men for all of us. You just have to know how to swim in the dating pool.....

Rebecca